iAM taking a new approach to life;

okayy so i was doiin a little thinking...this morning when i woke up i wasn't happy at all; as a matter of fact some things have been bothering me these past few days, && i just haven't been myself. but anyways, to make a very long story short, i had like an epiphany about life, while i was watching tha movie hancock (which by tha way is AMAZING)! but i realized that tha key to every situation is be proactive! being proactive means that you are constantly preparing yourself to be positive, for when a negative situation comes along; so if you are always routinely making sure that you are looking at things in tha most positive way possible, then when something, or someone negative comes along; yuu are always prepared. The Most Important thing that I got out of this "epiphany" is that I am in control of my emotions && my life. Which is kind of like DUH! but i don't think alot of people realize just how "in control" of their lives they actually are. I can't let little things that people do distract me from the goals that I have && more importantly I can't give people the power to control tha way that i act?! i am learning now more than ever that I have to take accountability for tha things that I do. I can't blame people around me for my faults, even though people do mess up on occasion, so do I. So Hancock && sexy will smith :) brought me to this conclusion: "me, myself, && i are tha only people that have tha power to change my circumstance!"